Friday, 20 January 2017

Five sex habits every woman should stop doing

I hate to be bossy but ladies, you need to stop doing these.

Faking moans/orgasms
I'll hold my hand up and admit I'm in the fake orgasm club. I've pulled that sin before and I made a pack that with my next partner I wouldn't fake an orgasm, not even once. So I haven't and let me tell you why. Faking orgasms means you fall into a trap, we do it because we want to make our partner feel like they are satisfying us even if they aren't. It's false advertising. You do it once and again and again. You keep faking and he/she carries on being shit in bed because, in their mind, they're doing a bloody marvellous job. Stop faking and if you're not enjoying it actually talk to your partner, show them how to make you cum. You're never going to have a real orgasm if you don't teach them how to please you. Trust me, it will make your sex life improve drastically.

Not cleaning up afterwards
You've done the deed and he's done the deed inside you, and then you carry on laying in bed. Therefore cum and all the messy side of sex goes all over your white John Lewis sheets. It's easy to do when all you want to do after sex is lay there cuddling or talking. If that's the case keep a pack of FemFresh wipes in your bedside draw or nearby. They're safe to use on your privates and you won't be lying in a pile of sperm.

Not carrying condoms
We carry everything else in our handbags including the kitchen sink and 12 lipsticks so I know you have room for two condoms ladies. If you're sexually active (or even if you're not, you never know when you could be wishing you had one) put them somewhere and keep yourself safe. It's important that as a sex blogger I preach safe sex and I truly mean it. If you get lucky at the club with a stranger that's cool, I'm all for having fun but make sure you have some in case he doesn't. I say carry two in case the first one breaks, or you want to go for round two...

Sleeping with your friend's ex
Girl code, just stick to the code for crying out loud. Don't be a dickhead.

Not saying what you want
I have so many women message me along the lines of 'I want to try this but I don't know how to ask my man...' this is a habit that needs to be broken. If he's your man you should feel comfortable enough with him to suggest sexual activities/ask him if you can try something. Bite the bullet (not your vibrating bullet) and get into the habit of suggesting what you'd like to try. What's the worst that can happen? He'll say no, that's it. You never know, he may have wanted to try it too.

Of course, you don't have to break these habits but your sex life will be bomb if you do - trust me...

If you would like to see 'sex habits every man should stop doing' let me know in the comments or tweet me at @JournalistSoph


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