6 signs that you have a shitty boyfriend


He refuses to give you a back massage, has the nerve to cheat on you, or worse he steals your food when you're not looking.

A lot of us have or have had a shitty boyfriend, or if you haven't had one yet you will without a doubt have a shitty boyfriend at some point in your life. My heart goes out to all the women who have had their heart broken because their man refuses to rub their feet or back. 

But in case you haven't realised your boyfriend is a nob yet (despite your What's App group chat constantly telling you) or you want to learn how to spot a useless boyfriend for the future then this is what to look out for:

1. He says stupid shit that ends up hurting your feelings all the time and never thinks before speaking.

2. He's not attentive at all. Now, I don't know about you but I am needy af. I'm a proper diva who likes attention (not all the time I'm rather cat-like in the sense that if my man touches me when I don't want him to I will let him know it). But all jokes aside if he ignores your needs, never ever wants to cuddle, never offers to run you a bath or randomly plays with your hair then he's got to go. 

3. He doesn't support your career, projects or interests. You need basic support from your partner, someone who inspires you and cares about you exceeding in life. He needs to see your work as important as his. If you tell him something that excites you or that you're proud of and he doesn't hype you up then show him where the door is.

4. He purposely tries to piss you off by sending you texts/Snapchats that will annoy you and he knows it will. No one should have to deal with someone who is just blatantly spiteful.

5. He gets jealous of you. I'm not talking about him being jealous of other boys here, this is about him being jealous of you. If he's sour when you're doing well, or moans because you earn more then he's just not supportive.

6. He gets jealous of EVERYTHING! The man who smiled at you in the bookstore, or the male waiter who looked at you for a second too long, if he gets the hump and gets jealous over those tiny little things - he's no good for you.





Written by VavaViolet's Editor Sophie Blackman.
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