Wednesday, 31 January 2018

January favourites, quitting smoking and a bit of a chit chat

Grab a cuppa, a snack or a glass of wine or a bottle because we’re in need of a catch up.

I haven’t written a chatty post like this in what feels like forever. Currently, as I write this, I have my dog curled up by my feet and I have a very tasty glass of rose that I am sipping far too quickly.

So, what’s new? January although traditionally the bleakest month of the year has actually been considerably decent. I’ve been full of motivation, productive and captivated. So far, I’m doing pretty well with my resolutions.

I quit smoking and have been using a vape instead. Already my breathing and taste buds feel different. Although, I was a moody little bitch for the first few days. I even teared up because I couldn’t have a fag at one point (beyond tragic I know). The worst part is the hunger. I am hungry 24/7 and although I’m still eating healthy and three meals a day I feel like I’m starving. It’s bizarre but I am fighting all the cravings. My libido is through the f*cking roof since I quit and everything turns me on – anyone else experience that, or just me?

My other resolutions were to learn to drive (I’ve found an instructor and am booking lessons in), frequent uploads to my YouTube channel ‘vavaviolett’ (done that twice a week), read a book a month (read two in January), up my game at work (I feel like I’ve done that personally). All in all, I’m feeling proud.

As we leave the month of sadness we enter the month of love and our vision is filled with love hearts and OTT Valentines cards. This will be my first Valentine’s Day I’ve experienced as a single woman since I was 12-years-old. To be frank, the only thing I’m upset about is that I won’t get any dick. I’m looking forward to coming home with a bottle of wine on February 14th, curling up on the sofa and watching a chick flick all by myself. And then on the 15th all the pretty heart shaped chocolate goes on sale so that’s a bonus.

Jokes aside, at this moment in time being single is doing the world of good for me. While at work about a fortnight ago a police officer asked for my number but I felt a tad awkward telling a copper that right now all I want is to get laid. It made me feel so adult though, flirting with an officer and all. I added his number but haven’t messaged him.

I’ve been coming out of my shell recently when it comes to men, flirting and making the first move. For ages, I would go super shy and just avoid the situation. I even hit on a lawyer but changed the conversation when I clocked the wedding ring on his finger. I’ve started actually replying to people on Tinder as well. I went through a phase of just reading and ignoring while enjoying the small shots of ego boosts.

My attitude changed when I realised that some men actually like it when a woman makes the first move. It’s a turn on if a woman is confident and goes for it. Before I assumed it put them off. As I always preach it’s also okay to have a bit of fun and experience new things. Although, my sex life is non-existent because I’m fussy as f*ck and refuse to just f*ck anything with a pulse. It’s an endless cycle of frustration and sex toy cleaning products.

If you want to hear about what products I have been adoring throughout the month then check out the video below or search ‘vavaviolett’ on YouTube!



What have you guys been up to? I want to hear all of the tea!

Written by VavaViolet’s Founder and Editor-in-Chief Sophie Blackman.

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