So, you want to improve your orgasm-giving skills? Here are the eight handiest tricks to maximise pleasure for the penis.
Of course, it goes without saying; ask before you do. Consent is always needed. Not every man wants his perineum or balls touched.
Edging
Delayed gratification can be hard to get your head around, but the end result is worth the try.
Edging is delaying the orgasm to make it more intense.
To do this is relatively simple. Do whatever it takes to get the man, or someone with a penis, right to the edge and then make him/they wait. Slow things down, focus on something different and then take him back to climax.
Try this two or three times before allowing them to climax for a far more intense orgasm.
Boost that testosterone
The body can naturally produce testosterone in many ways. It can do this by going to the gym, improving diet, getting plenty of sleep, reducing stress and addressing any underlying medical conditions.
Higher amounts of testosterone in the bloodstream suggest the more likely it is for orgasms to be intense.
So, why not try going for a run before your next session?
Do not forget his balls and perineum
The skin of the scrotum (the bag of skin that holds and helps to protect the testicles) is quite sensitive and can really turn a man on when touched.
We recommend keeping the biting and nibbling at bay here.
Instead, try sucking, licking, cupping or gently squeezing them.
To thrill him even more, you can play with his perineum.
The perineum is the bit of skin between the balls and his bum. This area contains his ejaculatory muscles, so when massaged, it can make his climax even more extraordinary.
Be present
Sometimes during sex, it can be nerve-racking, but passion is crucial for a memorable orgasm.
One basic rule is, do not get in your head. Set yourself free of expectations and let yourself go. Focus on the action happening and live in the moment.
Try and do everything you can to make your partner feel like they are the only person in the world. One easy way to do this is to let your facial expressions do the talking.
Dangle that tongue, drool, grin, smirk, and show him how much fun you are having.
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Focus on the physical act
For a truly better orgasm, return to your body.
Do not fantasise about some porn you recently watched or fixate on how to impress (do this before, now for example as you are reading this).
Hone in on the physical sensations that you are feeling with your body and how that can mimic or contrast your partner.
It makes the sex feel more raw and primal.
The Gawk Gawk 3000 and 9000
The Gawk Gawk 3000 is a "blowjob that will take his soul," according to Call Her Daddy founder Alex Cooper.
"Let me tell you, listen, any girl can give a blow job. It is the accessories you bring with the blow job that make America great again," said Cooper.
To perform the act, Cooper instructs us to imagine we are in a Sahara desert.
In episode three of Call Her Daddy, she said: "Close your eyes and picture you are parched. You need water. You’ve been trapped in this Sahara.
"It has been three days, you need water, and his wiener is a big fat gallon of Poland spring water.
"So, naturally, anybody that is parched will die to get to that water. They would die for dick at that point. I would die for dick at that point in the Sahara Desert. You will die for that motherfucking dick."
The point Cooper is making is that men adore it when we look like we would do anything to have their penis in our mouths. The desperation is hot for most.
Cooper continued: "Listen, if a guy looks down and sees a girl that is like, 'I wonder what I’m gonna have for dinner tonight?' He’s like, okay, well then here we go. I’m getting soft… Okay, it’s over.
"You need to look like I am starving. I am going to die until he literally gives me that gallon of water."
Now that is the Gawk Gawk 3000 out of the way, let's discuss how we upgrade to the 9000.
The Gawk Gawk 9000 needs the same desperation behind it as the 3000, but with more levels.
These are:
The noises - put a soundtrack to your mouth, moan as you would if you had not drunk water for a long time and finally are getting a sip. You can also use your saliva and the sloppiness of the wet penis to make erotic sounds. Do not be afraid of the saliva. Spit to your heart's content, and for a bonus, you can use it as lube to slide your mouth up and down.
The volume of saliva and sloppiness - put simply, to reach the 9000 give the sloppiest, wettest and sluttiest blowjob your mouth can conjure up. Let the drool fall from your mouth and pour onto the penis for extra points.
The double hand twist - using both hands lets him know he is ginormous and will thrill his ego.
Cooper says to do the double hand twist: "Left hands going right, right hands going left, and we are switching that shit up. We’re going on the merry-go-round, motherfuckers. Lefty righty sloppy."
Kiss and do it well
Although it may not seem major, kissing can boost chemistry in a relationship.
Use your tongue (but do so with caution). Avoid shoving your tongue in and use it sparingly - especially at first.
Combined with gentle lip movement and varying head angles, you are well on your way to the perfect snog.
Be open
Being open and honest with your partner can also increase their pleasure by communicating what you both like and do not want to try.
Talking openly about each other's fantasies can really set the mood.
It allows you to explore things you may not have considered before with your partner.
Written by VavaViolet Magazine's Editor-in-Chief, Sophie Blackman.
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